Intimität und Verlangen

Decreasing sexual interest is normal in a long-term relationship. David Schnarch explains in a completely new way how eroticism and sexuality can return when both partners grow within their relationship. Even couples who have a good and vibrant relationship experience it: boredom in bed, dwindling desire for their partner. Do we have to accept this? Is this the price for a reliable and monogamous bond? David Schnarch, a pioneer of sex therapy, vehemently denies this question and unfolds his new insights observed in countless couples therapies: sexual desire originates in the mind and is connected to all behavioral patterns in a relationship. Knowing more about our sexuality means we can change things: greater intimacy, deeper feelings, and fulfilling sexuality are possible.